I admit it. I’m a thirty-something single mom
and I play a massively multi-player online (MMO) game set in a fantasy world
featuring every cliché of the genre and populated mainly by adolescent boys. Why?
First, it’s fantastic for stress relief.
Nothing feels better than beating the snot out of someone after a long day at
the office, especially if they are trying to beat the snot out of you. Rough day? Need to kill something? Instead of
launching an unwise offensive on your boss or innocent liver, simply boot up,
log in, and slaughter the armies of your enemy.
Second, World of Warcraft offers a beautiful
environment that has to be seen to be believed. The developers have created a
visual world that is breathtaking. It’s
like going on an exotic vacation without dealing with baggage limits or customs
queues. And if the natives annoy you, you can kill them. Which isn't usually a good idea in real life.
Third, it’s low maintenance. Despite the
fact that it is a multi-player game, there is no requirement to be social. I don’t have
to relate to other people, I can just kill them. On the very rare occasions when I choose to talk with other players, it often goes
like this:
[Genghis]: ty dude
[Me]: not a dude.
[Genghis]: never met a girl who played wow b4
[Me]: how
do u know?
[Genghis]: so how old ru?
[Me]: 53
[Genghis]: srsly?
[Me]: ya. and fucking obese.
[Genghis]:
i never met a girl who cussed like u either
But while people often hit me, they
rarely hit on me.
This brings me to my fourth, and most
important, point: I play World of Warcraft because it offers a break
from the frustrations of being a female. There are times when I am tired of it. I see myself as a person, and I’m tired of being judged
by this physical body and tired of being weaker. I’m tired of my mind being
casually dismissed or ignored because of the shape of my body. I’m tired of
being afraid.
Playing World of Warcraft allows me to create an alter-ego. Female characters in the game have all the strength, agility, intelligence, speed, and stamina as their male counterparts; gender is rendered neutral. My ability to play the game, to succeed, relies only on my wits and hand dexterity. It's an even playing field.
Playing World of Warcraft allows me to create an alter-ego. Female characters in the game have all the strength, agility, intelligence, speed, and stamina as their male counterparts; gender is rendered neutral. My ability to play the game, to succeed, relies only on my wits and hand dexterity. It's an even playing field.
World of Warcraft, and other MMOs, offer more
than just entertainment for women by providing an entertaining environment where we are people, automatically. For me, that’s more than just a game, that’s paradise.